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He even try to change himself to be a good husband. But when you're good? I can't imagine anything better, and that's the truth.
But with times, she noticed that although her husband it not what she expect, he might still be perfect for her. Their relationship had it ups and downs, but they were both committed to make things work, even with their polar opposite personality.
I want to fucking eat you alive. Each of them have their distinct personalities without overshadowing the main characters.
My favorite part of the book is the second half when the author thrown in some drama into the story and causes a shift in the romance department. The thing that happened to Talon sounds Horny women in Rolette, ND unusual and refreshing and I'm a total sucker for vulnerable man and love seeing how the heroine fussing and fawning over the hero.
I actually enjoyed this kind of delicious angst whereby they both are not in a good place, but we knew they still both very much in love and won't be able to stay away for long.
I love the fact that the author gave them a dudd and seeing the cute and romantic side of Talon is priceless. Be the moon. Shine above udde of them. As if Carian hasn't win me over yet with Talon and Tqtted, she even thrown in an acknowledge about her Lady wants casual sex Scottsboro that make me cry a fucking river.
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Not for anyone. View all 8 comments. I have been in absolute awe since the first time I read a Carian Cole book. A social experiment to partner up compatible couples much like you might have seen on a reality tv showhave them get married without knowing anything about each other Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit have been in absolute awe since the first time I read a Carian Cole book.
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This is no fantasy people yes it is fiction but this type of experiment has been done before and what Talon and Asia go through was very realistic and believeable The banter was witty and some of the expressions made me literally laugh out loud while I was cheering these two on that they would end up where I wanted tl to be. I was left numb in parts and honestly cried a time or two It commlt just beautifully written, well thought out plotwise and hit so many places in my heart that it made me want to know these people for real and be in their world as tatted observer or friend.
I received a free copy of this book for an honest review. Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit all 3 comments. So much potential, but in the end characters do make or break a book for me, so this was more a miss than a hit. Weirdly enough for me, what I did not like were the main characters. I mean, I liked Asia, but she was the worst possible match for Talon. So here's my issue with him.
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And to a certain extent it did, but the main byproduct was that it added unnecessary anxiety regarding their relationship. Which leads me to the second issue, something that this book kinda shares with the others in the series. Most plot twists are quite predictable. Which is not a huge flaw, but adding something extra, and unexpected, would set this series to a whole new level, IMO.
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Not today. Maybe not tomorrow. But Inedpendent will be. It won't always indepenfent this bad. This pain isn't my forever. This is just a pause. There's more waiting for me, somewhere down the road of my life. View all 4 comments. I loved this book It had everything, humor,love,drama all wrapped up in a perfect package Talon and Asia are so perfect together I simply loved them Review duude This was good ARC kindly provided in exchange for an honest review.
This book tugged on my Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit. I cannot compare it with any other book. It was original, refreshing, well written and emotional. Women flock him but they never stick around. He is tired of meaningless hook ups. He wants something Beautiful ladies looking orgasm Paterson. Asia is struggling to survive but she is a fighter.
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Talon is not her type. He seems independentt and forward but she is bound to him for six months, until the social experiment is over. When Talon meets his wife, he is certain that there has been some mistake.
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Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit found commi smiling and laughing a lot at the beginning, as Talon Tzll Asia got to know each other.
I was so intrigued by the idea of a blind marriage without No beginning, no end, just now I was so intrigued by the idea of a blind marriage without even having a blind date first. I was already in CoverLust with the sexy rocker on the front of the book, so I couldn't imagine the bride being disappointed rather than lust-struck by his sexy long hair and tattoos.
But, she was. He didn't fit her image of her ideal man. In fact, her thought was "This is not my dream man. This is like a rock star hippie Tarzan. Talon is a Cockstarhe's attracted to what I consider to be independen fake Barbie type.
He's a boob man, the bigger the better and real doesn't matter. Tattrd likes his women tall, confident, well-traveled and experienced. Disappointment Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit an understatement of epic proportions. How the hell did he end up with short, shy, insecure, inexperienced and afraid to fly? Just when I got Girl wants to fuck 47568 il under control, his internal mental dialogue regarding the fact that the romance team had found the only woman who didn't want to fuck him, had me giggle-snorting again.
I ate it up, like the romance junkie that I am. As the couple got to know each other I was anticipating the eventual outcome of their relationship. It seemed like it was gonna be a predictable, yet satisfying rocker romance where they would instantly fall in love and live happily ever after.
If you've been reading this series, then you already know, that's not how this author works. Nope, she likes to pull us in, cpmmit us get comfortable, and then rip the rug out from under us. She never fails to surprise me, fude she never disappoints.
She's a sure thingunlike Asia. Like Talon's father said, "You don't just add water and stir. View 2 comments. From a few percent in, I was in tears and choking back the Tall tatted independent dude looking to commit sob. How rare to say that I could hardly see my Kindle because of crying and rubbing my eyes - I just completely felt this book and Asia's struggle. It was beautifully written as were Talon's struggles later in the story. The characters, the writing, the story Oh and I loved Pixie too!
What a ride this book has been for me I heading straight on to book 5. View all 6 comments. The premise: Can you let someone else pick your HEA looing marry them, sight unseen?
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Please give me some insights as I really need some guidance. From what you say, he does have problems with commitment which is what you want. Look at his pattern. He's already told you everything you need to know to make a decision. He says you "might " be worth it The might really is not reassuring. Reflect on your ideas vs. Reality because I think you have already seen enough to be able to decide if this is the kind of man you would like to marry.
I wonder if you have checked that thoroughly and carefully. We women have a tendency to focus more on him than ourselves which leads us to ignore our instinct and red flags. Don't forget the happy ever. Never spend your life waiting. Live for you always.