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I was taken aback. For once I wondered what compels me to want to do this thing to him. What makes me want to perform oral sex on men? Certainly to pleasure them and make them orgasm.
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That's the objective, but WHY? So I get him off. Once I've sucked it, what then?
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I mean I'm gay and all and have been all my life, but the act of putting the penis in my mouth trying to cause a man to orgasm I want to know why the penis is the target of my affection. Am I fucked up in the head? Seriously, some psychological take on doing this, thinking this. It's an intense intimacy, coupled Guy wants dick sucked the knowledge of the pleasure you're bringing him, and his presumed gratitude.
Try sucking their big toe or thumb and see if you get the same feeling. It's pleasure and control. Over-think it and you mess with the pleasure. What then? You have an orgasm and feel good, and I feel better and happier for having giving you one.
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I was once told by a priest who was also a trained psychologist that basically you're trying to incorporate the good qualities you see in the other man into yourself.
So if you like older men, men with muscles, men with nicer bodies than your own, or as you get older, men who are younger than you, you're trying to get what they have. This is indeed a mystery to me. An even bigger mystery is wajts men will pay Guy wants dick sucked do it. No woman would ever do that.
I'm straight, but I want to suck a man's penis. . Ain't nobody you gotta answer to but yourself, and maybe the guy who's dick you suck. 30 minutes of sucking the dick of the man you supposedly love and want to marry ; and in exchange you get all that? I'm sorry, but, I just don't. You are a man, and you just wanted your dick sucked. But, you are not gay until all you want is other men, so it really is up to you, and you.
Guy wants dick sucked must be truly altruistic people. Echoing R14, I've read similar things about sex in general. It's almost a form of benign vampirism--when you have sex with people, you take a bit of their energy whether you have an emotional connection with them or not.
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But, for Guy wants dick sucked, the intimacy, physical closeness were what I desired. Ridiculous nonsense R Sex is not about taking, but giving. You are giving pleasure to a man when you do it, and that is the important thing. Really, all your psychobabble sounds self-loathing, most of you. Guy wants dick sucked the ridiculous and irrational lengths that most men the hetero majority will go to fuck pussy.
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The sex drive is not entirely conscious, and if your wiring happens to drive Mature swingers in Longs South Carolina to suck cock rather than fuck pussy, I don't really thinks there's a "reason" for it.
It is true that it is a bit odd that most gay men LOVE just sucking cock, to the point that some will pay just to do that as others have said. What about the psychological need to Guy wants dick sucked a woman's cock? So much damned privilege on Guy wants dick sucked thread. I get the Psych. Also personally, to me, it is an expression of my sexuality. When I do it, I'm expressing myself at my most basic level.
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I think that is why I enjoy it - most of the time. But sometimes, it's really just a chore. The fantasy is very often much better than the reality. But then again, those Giy when you're with someone who really turns you on - there's nothing like a good throat pounding. It is because you feel inferior. Guy wants dick sucked
The act of being the receptacle for another man's pleasure is a way of reinforcing that he is superior to you. That you are not really a man. And this is deeply subconscious. People with healthy self esteem think about reciprocal types of sexual actions, giving and receiving. The first thing a man would NOT think about is putting another guy's dick in his mouth but rather being the aggressor in a sexual act, being the one who HAS his dick sucked.
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My lust and desire is expressed in wanting to fuck. I get the "it feels like a chore" part r32 mentioned.
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As a child, I'd open a Cracker Jack box and wolf through the molasses nubbins and nuts to get to the prize. I have simply swapped to a less sugary snack.
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Hundreds of comments from straight guys rhapsodizing on their beauty, their desire to lick, suck, and gnaw on them. No offense, I just don't have an erotic reaction to the image. Suddenly I found myself wondering: Across town, Samantha was getting the kind of head every single girl in Manhattan was hot for, at New York's newest - and trendiest - hair salon Blow Job.
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Why pathologize men who suck cock? Women suck cock, women suck pussy, men suck pussy, men suck cock.
Most straight women do NOT look at sucking cock like most gay men do.